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writes: I have been dating this girl for one year. The other day she said she had something that she had been hiding from me. On the night that I met her, she had a casual sexual encounter with a mutual friend of ours. Now granted, we had just met (scheduled a date for a few days later), but after she dropped me off at my house, she went over to this other guys house (a mutual friend) and had sex with him. Should I be upset? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioncollaroy you are god damn right....hadnt thought of it that way. thanks for the response.
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reader, Collaroy +, writes (27 November 2007):
No, because you guys were not dating. She was free to see whoever she wanted and she did.
Now it may be a bit embarrassing that its a mutual friend, but look at it this way, she slept with this guy and she then started a relationship with you. How do you think this guy feels, I'm sure he's asking himself what have you got that he hasnt?
So forget it, she chose you so you must be pushing the right buttons huh?
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