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Should I be honest and just tell him I'm really struggling with BJ's now?

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Question - (12 August 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 August 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey all! so ive been with my boyfriend for about 7 months and i love him very much.. sex is great. but there is one thing that recently that i havent been so big on.. and that's him coming in my mouth. i used to not mind at all.. but it makes me gag now because of the taste. why is that? it hasnt changed in taste or anything, and i love giving him blowjobs. and i know that him ejaculating into my mouth really really turns him on. any ideas on how i can deal with this? i dont really know if i should say something, or just find a way of making it better for myself, maybe chewing gum or something? maybe its better to just be honest. i dont know, a little help please? :) thankyou.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2010):

I would say keep looking for solutions. (I have heard that certain things in the diet can effect the taste.) But while looking for solutions, definitely tell him exactly how you feel. He might be able to help find the solution. Hiding things can always lead to misunderstandings, or make him worry why you don't like it any more. The imagination can come up with things far worst than reality sometimes.

Here's an idea if you're adventureous...do a little experimenting on your own, and publish your findings for others. You own version of "Eat this not that", just for specific reasons.

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A female reader, cocoqueen88 United States +, writes (12 August 2010):

cocoqueen88 agony auntchewing on gum could help or toothpaste. i've use toothpaste before(not for the same problem) and it made my boyfriend go crazy because of the chill.

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A male reader, BrownWolf Canada +, writes (12 August 2010):

BrownWolf agony auntIf the taste didn't bother you before, then something has chamged. Beer makes cum taste a lot bitter than normal. Is he pushing your head down just before he cum's in your mouth?

I have heard honey really helps, not sure why.

If things don't change, then yes, tell him the truth about him you feel.

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