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writes: I have this guy friend I who I like a lot. He's really funny and sweet but quiet. He always brings up random stuff that makes me laugh and sometimes he will come up behind me for no reason and say something to make me tease back or get my attention. He has already made future plans that he wants to take me to. I don't know if it's all acts of friendship or if he likes me more than a friend. But I would like to ask him out but I don't know how he would act or if I should wait for him to come to me, if he feels like I do. Do guys like girls asking them out even if it's their friends? I think he likes me but I just cant tell in what way. Plz help Reply to this Question
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reader, BoiCrzy75925 +, writes (9 April 2006):
Well, if he is already making future plans for the two of you, there might be something there. It could be that he wants to ask you out but is too shy and hopes that he can get the message across to you by taking you out on these "dates" he has in mind. If you really like him and feel that he likes you as well, I'd say go for it. However, be careful...don't scare him. I mean, don't just blurt out, "Hey, I'm in love with you, wanna go out". As stupid as it may seem, guys tend to get freaked out when girls are way up-front like that (trust me, I'm speaking from experience). And if you do end up asking him out and he doesn't feel the same way about you that you feel about him, just leave it at that. I'm not saying you have to stop liking him. I'm just saying don't totally smother him with your affection. I made the mistake of doing this when I fell in love with one of my guy friends, and I lost him because of it. He still talks to me sometimes, but things have never been the same as they were. Anyways, best of luck to you!
God bless,
Sarah
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (9 April 2006):
 It sounds as if there something there between you two, espeically as his making future plans. but theres a friendship to consider here, do you think that you worth risking your friendships, if so ask him out.
It's a woman's world now so take control if you feel that you want to begin a relationship with with this guy then ask him out.
Guy's love being asked out and just as they love to ask girls out.
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reader, meg21uk +, writes (9 April 2006):
 It sounds as if this guy has already given out all the right signals that he likes you as more than a friend. Guys iften find it difficult to approach girls they like especially if their is already a friendship and I think that is why he is always teasing you and vying for your attention.Guys do like women who are brave enough to be straight up with them remember men are more confused than us when it comes to how they feel.I think you have to decide how much you like him and then talk to him. There are three ways this could goA)He wants to stay friends if he doesn't feel the sameB)He feels the same in which case great make the most of it C)He doesn't feel the same and doesn't want t continue the friendship in which case was her really that great after allNo one can tell you what to do but you have to decide whats right for you good luck!
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