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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:So I've been dating a girl for about 2 months, it was going really well, shes rubbish at texting and I don't get a reply for sometimes 3 days but she always does and we meet up and everything wws going great. The last contact I had with her, we met up for my bday and she gave me abd card and little gift and sent me a really lovely text. I then went on holiday and I have heard nothing from her since, texts her a couple of times and have not said anything other than of she would like to meet up. I find it a bit weird as we were getting on so well and i had no incline that she might just want to stop dating? should i ask her outright? or just leave it and admit to myself that maybe it just isnt going to happen? Thanks for your help guys!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2013): Don't give up if you want her. Girls at that age would like to "keep their options open", which simply means she might be with other guy(s), or at least she hopes she finds a better catch. That explains why she takes so long to reply, but yet she tries to keep you interested.
As a man, you should "make" the woman want you, not wait for her to see if she wants to keep you as an "option".
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2013): She's just not that into you. She's probably seeing other guys. She's keeping you on file; until she has nothing better to do. There doesn't seem to be any attraction to me.
Otherwise; she's just waiting for you to just roll off out of lack of interest, or until you find someone else.
She's waiting for you to just fade away; or she'll just park you conveniently in the "friend-zone."
She'll text you when she's bored.
She lost interest a while ago. You're the one hanging on, my friend.
Don't ask her anything. Just ignore her until you forget about her. Don't be nasty.
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