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writes:Ok, so I've finally met this girl at my very first party, she's 2 years younger than me and we pretty much hitting it off. It's her first time too, so we are so new to this whole thing. Anyway, I got her # and drive her home after the party... I really like her, and I pretty sure she feels the same... her birthday is in a week... What should I do? Ask her to be my gf on her birthday? Is that too soon? What do I do during this week. I know where she is, but I don't want to be a stalker and just go knock on the door. I'm talking the dating rule of waiting 1 day after the party before calling her (and it's killing me ) I want to hang out with her again, but how do I start?... There's too many question, but I think I want the general sense of what couple would do at this point :P Reply to this Question
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reader, missyfit  +, writes (31 October 2010):
 You need to take things slow. Asking her to be your girlfriend is a big step and yet you don't really know the girl. Why don't you jang out with her a couple of times and really see if you are compatible and then figure things out if you want to be in a relationship. Hope this helps!
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (31 October 2010):
 Slow down dude! Have you even asked this girl on a date yet? If not, you should do that first.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2010): just date for a little while, see how that goes. maybe even see if she wants you to take her out for her birthday. oh and the waiting a day thing is kinda bull. i mean yeah dont call her like right away but you dont hve to wait a whole day to call someone. if you really like her call her! and yeah, just take her out at least two or three times then ask her to be your gf.
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