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I'm in love with the guy my friend likes, who told me he liked me as a joke...let's just say it's complicated.

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Question - (4 June 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 June 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

well i wuz at a party, and the class clown told me he liked me. i didnt believe him...at first. then i DID believed him and told him i liked him, cuz i REALLY do, ever since 5th grade. and then i found out it wuz a joke, and got so pissed at him. then, i find out that he told the whole grade that i said i liked him and that he felt bad for me so he said he liked me. i think he also might have told the guy i kinda like that i like him cuz i trusted him and told him. so, i get so mad at him, scream at him at a party, the whole thing. then, he tells my friend that hes so mad at himself for wat he did to me and that hes mad that im mad at him. she told me but i didnt believe him. then, he met my friend. and of course he begs me to be his friend again.

idk if thats y he wanted to be my friend again, but i betting it wuz. she likes him soooo much and he seems to like her too. and i have to act lke im happy for them. but theres something else that he said...i wuz talking to him on aim when i wuz trying to help them get together (i hated myself for that...gag me!) and he said he liked 2 people. and i wuz asking him to tell me who it wuz, but he wouldnt tell. he said i would find out at a party. i said that i trusted him with who i like, so he should trust me. but he wouldnt tell. (im thiking maybe it wuz me...youll see later on.) so a couple weeks pass by, i have to be all hapyy for my friend wenever she calls me saying he txted her "hey". like i care.

then, today, my friend said he talked to him and wanted to know why he did that to me. he said that he really DID like me a little and that he said he wuz kidding to my friend, but idk y. then my friend took it the wrong way and spread it saying that it wuz a joke. and thats how i heard. then we start at the beginning again. how come he wont say any of these things to me? did he want to be my friend again just so that he could get to my friend? should i tell my friend how i feel about him? should i tell him? should i EVER trust him again? i really need help. im extremely in love with him.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (5 June 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntDamn I'm glad I'm not 13.

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A male reader, Short timer United States +, writes (5 June 2008):

Short timer agony auntlisten you shouldnt worry about drama. your still young, you have plenty of time to find someone right for you. wait untill your a little older. also learn to type properly most people may not understand you.

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