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Should I apologize for stealing their bf's?

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Question - (2 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 November 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *ush hushxashley writes:

okay, the end of my sophmore year in high school i hooked up with a long time friend. the only problem was, he had a girlfriend. we started hooking up more regularly and eventually his girlfriend found out. she got really mad, yelled at me, and hates me now. about two weeks after that i hooked up with her best friends boyfriend. (i know, i'm a homewrecker) she found out, yelled at me, and now talks about me regularly. i'm still friends with both guys, and they're both single now. but i feel like i should apologize to the girls. even though it was like 5 months ago.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2008):

Jeez, it's a wonder you've got any friends left...

I don't think they'd even want your apologies anyway. It's a way to make you feel better, they're not going to gain anything from it are they?

The other poster is right, karma is a bitch and hopefully one day it'll come back and bite you on the ass. You can't keep doing this to people.

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A female reader, sappygirl United States +, writes (3 November 2008):

sappygirl agony auntUm...you should if you truly in you're heart feel bad and won't do it again. Be sincere and genuine. However, since it was only 5 months ago, I have a feeling that your intentions are not real.

I think you get a power trip knowing you can get any guy you want. And you go for the guys that already have girlfriends. You totally disrespected the girls, and the truth is, you should feel ashame of yourself for doing this. I don't think you feel guilty at all that you are a "homewrecker". It doesn't come accross in your post.

You need to apologize to yourself and think deep and hard why you would want to hurt another person like this.

Karma is a bitch.

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