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He's still in touch with his ex, and not happy with our sex life

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Question - (20 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 January 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *olphinfreak618 writes:

I recently found out the my bf was talking to his ex gf on his cell phone and she replied back that she just was not ready to accept him back into her life. Does this mean there are chances she will in the future? This was right after he told me that things in bed have not been good at all lately. he has even talked to me about his ex gf and how they use to have sex. He has brought her up a lot lately. I love him so much and the thing i fear most is losing him. What do i do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009):

No one should compare anyone to their ex. or anyone else they may have had in bed. Sex should be intimate, sometimes a little crazy, but still intimate.

I am sorry, but in my opinion, you should cut off the sex and if he leaves, as heartbreaking as it may be for you, it will be the best thing to happen for your future.

The ex not wanting him back may tell you something!!

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A female reader, ydeengirl United States +, writes (20 January 2009):

I have to be straight with you. If a man talks to you like that and is talking with another woman, you have to have pride in yourself and walk away. You don't have to dump him but have some pride in yourself and walk. maybe he'll snap out of it. maybe he made a dumb choice. But sex is so intimate, so personal and what he said was dumb.

What he said and did to you should rank high on the "not acceptable behavior" list.

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