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writes: My 62 year old husband has had more and more problems lately getting and maintaining an erection, and now has to resort to looking at dirty magazines and films whilst we make love.He says it's the only way he can stay erect, but the books and films always involve teenage girls (all readily available commercial stuff he's bought locally from a big chain) and he now wants me to act out a fantasy of his about girls of that age, pretending to be one myself.Should I do it, to help him, or will it just make him worse?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2006): He's old and it's definitely not the way it used to be. I think rather than asking strangers whether you should do it or not and worrying about what will happen, you should make that decision on your own. The thing is, how do you feel about it all? If you don't like the idea, you have the choice of not doing it. That might be bad either way as he might continue to detach himself from you. I mean it's bad enough that he needs other women to get him off - you must feel hurt? If you don't, which I doubt you aren't, then do what you feel you want to. If you do feel hurt, well... You can always suggest viagra, and possibly making yourself dress up sexy or something.
I know what Ms. Anti-Porn will say to this, even after my latest post in that Porn thread, but sometimes acting out a fantasy isn't really that bad. These are modern contemporary times - at least, it 'should' be. Men dress up too you know? 8]
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