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Should he be making the effort to be in touch with me more often?

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Question - (25 March 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 March 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I'm nearly 19 and my boyfriend is 36 and we've been together for 6 months. He is a real workaholic! He lives in London (where his business is) during the week and near me at weekends. When he is in London, I don't always hear from him every day and sometimes see him a couple of times a week. When I don't hear from him, he says he has been doing a night shift. Should he be making the effort to be in touch with me more often?

When he is around the corner from me, he is an A* bf!

Any advice?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2007):

Well, you know he is a workaholic and his business must come first. Also, the age difference between the two of you is considerable.

Whether he SHOULD be making more of an effort to stay in touch is beside the point: he does what he does, and you can't expect to be together all the time. Just enjoy what you have now, and enjoy the activities you do with friends or on your own........

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A male reader, home_land Germany +, writes (25 March 2007):

home_land agony aunthello

if you enjoy the company of eachother when he is with you

just keep enjoing him the way he is and i think its not the right time to aske for change.

good luck

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