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Should girls ask guys out on a date?

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Question - (27 May 2007) 8 Answers - (Newest, 27 May 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, *wimmerchick writes:

Is it all right for a girl to ask a guy out, or is it only supposed to be the guys who do the asking?

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A female reader, Sexybum United Kingdom +, writes (27 May 2007):

Sexybum agony auntIt's ok for a girl to ask a guy out... Girls are much more independant nowadays so I guess the tables have turned a lass needs to make it really clear to a guy that she likes him before he can consider making a move... and some girls are so utterly stunning nowadays that the guys are scared to ask em out..

So go ahead and ask him, if he says yes than you've just bagged yourself a date!

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A female reader, loops United Kingdom +, writes (27 May 2007):

Yeah its fine for a girl to ask a guy. Infact minus one who asked me thats how Ive got all my boyfriends! Its equal status now on chasing and its not just boys who do the running anymore! Good luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2007):

Why not love, it must be terribly hard sometimes being a man, not that id like to be one. At the end of the day yes or no at least you no were you stand. and somtimes a fella likes to be the one asked, just as us girls do. so good luck in the decition you make and take care.

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A female reader, Jendorset United Kingdom +, writes (27 May 2007):

Apparently guys like being asked out, so make the first move.

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A female reader, candy00s United Kingdom +, writes (27 May 2007):

candy00s agony auntIf we waited around to be asked out by a guy - we could be waiting a lifetime!

Times have changed and i think it is okay to ask a guy out now. :)

Good Luck

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A female reader, nicola79 United Kingdom +, writes (27 May 2007):

nicola79 agony auntwell times have changed my love. it used to be the boy who did all the running but like i say times have moved on and its 50 50 now.

if you really like someone then yes i would go and see if he wants to go for something to eat,or go see a movie. if he says no,then dont let it put you off because im afraid nothing is simple in this life flower.

you will be fine my love.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (27 May 2007):

kenny agony auntIn this day and age i don't think it look out of place for a girl to ask a guy out. There are alot of shy guys out there who are scared to approach woman, and would gladly accept an offer from the opposite sex.

If there is someone you want to ask out then i say go for it, and good luck x

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A male reader, DV1 United States +, writes (27 May 2007):

DV1 agony auntIt saves a heap of trouble and discomfort when a girl asks a guy out. That way it's on the girl's terms, and she can't complain that a guy is bothering her or wasting her time.

DV1

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