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writes: I am in love with a woman that is really making me upset right now. Her Daughter had a house in her name and decided to come home one day and tell her mother and 5 other siblings that the house was on the market and then a month later, they have 30 days to move. Everyone except the two youngest daughters, ages 17 and 19 found a place to live. Now the mother and two daughters are living in the Marriott hotel. The mother had the money to move into an apartment. The mother works in Long Island and the daughters wanted to live in Queens. I told the mother that it was not wise to live in Queens but... she wanted to please her duaghters and followed suit. Needless to say, that did not work and she did not get the place and due to lack of time to look for another apartment, she went to the hotel. Now she wants to register a car after her son crashed her Lexus Jeep more than once and ran up her insurance, I told her to forget about a car right now and concentrate on a place to live. A friend offered her a place in a room if she could find a place for the girls temporarily but she refused being too proud. I am upset and ready to give up on her proudness and flaunting behavior. I need my own place and want to get it, what should I do? Curious and hurting.
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reader, pops +, writes (26 August 2005):
She is obviously not making mature decisions, and you have now become part of the enemy in her eyes. Let her go. Stay away from her. find a place for yourself, and get on with your life. You can't fix her problems, and take care of yourself, too.
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