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anonymous
writes:Im 13 years old and i like this girl. I said i would be her best friend just to get closer to her. She has a boyfriend that is one of my good friends but she clearly likes me better. Shes too nice to break up with him so what do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2011): She doesn't like you better, she just likes stringing you along and when your friend finds out you've been trying to get with her behind his back you'll lose them both. Because he won't want to know you and she'll stick by him and play the victim.
Let this one go. For the future OP stay away from your friends girlfriends you will always lose that friend and you will also lose the trust of your other friends because they won't trust a guy who tries to take his friends girlfriends.
Also just so you know, girls absolutely hate guys that befriend them just to get with them. They really do, because you completely deceive them into thinking you're their friend only to turn around and try it on once they trust you. Seriously girls hate guys like that because it's a very sneaky ploy. If you like a girl then you make that clear from the start and you don't pretend to be her friend. You have some balls and ask her out from the start, not sneak around like wormtongue playing games. Just a warning dude, get out of this situation now, you'll be the only loser in all this and you will lose a hell of a lot too, you'll lose your friend, possibly a lot of your other friends, you won't get the girl because if she wanted you she wouldn't be dating this guy and you'll get a reputation to the guys as an untrustworthy girlfriend stealer and to the girls as a sneaky, coward who befriend girls to try and get into their knickers.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 April 2011):
The fact is, she clearly likes her boyfriend better of she would end it. I think you might well be labouring under a misunderstanding here. You'd be better off pulling away and letting her get on with it. If she liked you that much, she would have dumped him.
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reader, llifton +, writes (27 April 2011):
 nothing...cause she's dating your good friend. and friends don't do that to each other.
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