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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi. Im dating this boy and he and my best friend do not get along AT ALL. They always fight and I really would like them to get along which isn't going to happen. Because of that, I feel like this relationship isn't going to last very long. I also like 2 other guys more than I like my boyfriend which isn't good. We were also supposed to have our very first date (and my very first ever) and he canceled b/c he didn't have money to pay for the both of us to go to the movies even though we had this planned a week in advance.The tickets were $6 and $6 which adds up to $12 which is cheap. We just started going out April 12 and so far, nothing spectacular. He also doesn't text me much. I've been told that when you are a new couple, you are supposed to be slightly clingy. When we are together, he pays attention to me but when we aren't, I feel as if he isn't making much of a effort and that I am not amoung a priority of his. I feel like it isn't going to work out but I feel kind of bad about it. I don't want to break up with him but there are already problems this early on! Should I talk with him about it or just let it run its course? Should I also plan on breaking up with him?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (27 April 2011):
 let me get this straight:
you like two other boys MORE than you like the boy you refer to as your boyfriend.
you have not even had your first date with him yet
your best friend does not get along with him
and you feel like he ignores you when you are not together... that you are not a priority to him (and you would liike very much to be the center of his world)
did I get that?
honey if you haven't had a date yet and there are problems, I would just reconsider this. I'm not sure I'd even call this boy a boyfriend at this point... someone you considered dating perhaps...
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