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She's thinking of dumping her boyfriend, am I in with a chance?

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Question - (6 September 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 6 September 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi, I'm having a slight dilemma here, there's this girl I like, I'm pretty sure she likes me as well cause she flirts with me a lot but she's got a boyfriend though and they've been going out for a year, she's spoken to people about dumping him (knowing I can hear) I've never been in any relationships before and if she dumps him then I'd like to go out with her. Please help!!!

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A female reader, auntie donna United Kingdom +, writes (6 September 2007):

auntie donna agony auntHi,

If she really likes you then you wont need to ask her out as soon as they split up, as chances are in a few weeks she will ask you. And if she doesn't feel the same way it could ruin your friendship if you make a move straight away. You need to find out if she really does like you, the best way to do that would be to sit down with her and talk about it, and if she does you can go from there. On the other hand if she doesn't atleast you wont lose her as a friend. GIRLS LIKE HONESTY.

Good luck.

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (6 September 2007):

AskEve agony auntKeep your ears open until you know her and her boyfriend have split up, get to know her a bit better then ask her out, simple!

Eve

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2007):

i can see wot u mean -kenny , but she might want confirmation that shes dumping her b/f and that il ask her out

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A female reader, stawberry01 United Kingdom +, writes (6 September 2007):

stawberry01 agony aunthi

Theres is very very good chance that you could get your girl if she is making such that you know about it she may want to be with you.

xx

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A female reader, Gemini1506 United Kingdom +, writes (6 September 2007):

You may have a chance

But be straightforward, because flirting for girls is like drinking water... esstential.

If you get more 'vibes' from her go for it

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (6 September 2007):

kenny agony auntYes there is every chance that if she seperates from her current boyfriend you stand a chance with her. But don't persue her while she is still attached, as this would not be right. Wait for her to break up with him then leave it a while because otherwise she will just be on the rebound.

Give it a little while, a couple of weeks maybe then ask her if she fancies doing doing something one weekend then take it from there.

Good luck

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