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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello everyone, I've got a problem I need advice on. long story short I just started dating my ex of 3 years ago. And before we started dating again we would hang out a lot and she would always tell me how badly she's hooked on me and how badly she's falling for me again. And now after dating for a few weeks she doesn't say that kind of stuff anymore, at least not to that extent. She will always tell me she misses me but other than that she acts kinda distant when we aren't together. But when we hang out She's perfectly fine and we are happy. Last couple of days I can't help but feel this pit in my stomach because I think she might be losing interest or having 2nd thoughts about dating. I just feel like I'm overacting and all of this stems from silly thoughts and it scares me to lose her because I think I can truelly say that I'm in love with her. A part of me also thinks that she may just need some time to herself because we've spent almost the last two weeks seeing each other and staying the night and having sex a lot of those nights. I just wish I could get a perspective from a ladies point of view that might have an idea of what's going on...
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 December 2012):
 It sounds to me like she might be scared of getting hurt. She has told you she is falling for you all over again therefore she let her barrier down and it sounds like she feels exposed and is scared in case something goes wrong. There was obviously a reason why you both broke up in the past maybe you both need to talk about that in the open and you need to tell her you are serious about her and you want this to work out. Make sure she knows how you feel and how serious you are about her. Make sure you both communicate openly so that there is no confusion between the both of you.
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