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female
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anonymous
writes: hi, i got this friend, she can get any guy she wants like but when she does she treats them badly, recently she had a guy he was lovely although he was in a relationship before her and he is expecting a child and she got with him but then they had silly arguments because his ex put up old pictures of them and fair enough that would annoy me too but she just snaps at him and gets quite vicious and if girls look at her wrongly she kicks off like yelling and threatening to kick there behinds so to speak she will get herself into serious trouble one day but this guy he doesn't know where he is with her and they have been backtogether then they're not then they are and they are both so alike and they clash and he keeps coming to me for advice and they back stab about eachother to me all the time but then they are together and it puts me in an awkward situation i want to help them both but i can't because they're too much alike and all they do is back stab one another to me, now she hardly talks to me and they're not together again! he said some horrible stuff about her to me and i feel it's unfair what he said because he's never told her what he really thinks he just tells me and the same for her, i feel for him because i know what she is like and how nasty she can get and he doesn't know where he stands.Anything anyone can help me with?i would appreciate it
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (17 March 2009):
I'd back away from them both. Let them sort themselves out. Just tell them you are tired of being stuck in the middle, you aren't really helping anyway. Sometimes it's just best to mind one's own business.
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