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writes:ok, I posted here recently and got some fabulous advice. I'm in a really tough dilemna right now. I've been hanging out with my ex for over a month now. When we hang out, I have the time of my life. We're all over each other and get along so well. The thing is, she still communicates with all of her ex bf's which is fine by me to an extent. However, there is another guy who she used to be literally OBSESSED with in college and who she used to hook up with in college who she still talks to all of the time. I was friends with her before we were lovers so I saw first hand how she felt about him. She communicates with him online and through social networking sites and even when she was between bfs a couple of years back, she was hounding him to hang out. He is very flirtatious with her when they talk and she is also from what I've seen in the past. The thing is she is CLEARLY interested in me and that is not even a question as she has come on extremely strong in the past month to get back with me. She continually hounds me to hang out. So, it's not a matter of being threatened by him, but it's a more a matter of her mindset which I'm confused by. This was one of the problems the first time we went out 5 years ago. Except I couldn't deal with things properly back then. I'm much more mature now and I'm debating whether I should end this. Is it normal behaviour on her part? Is it normal for me to be jealous and what should I do? Thanks so much for any help.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 September 2009):
Well she is with you. You can't and mustn't stop her from talking to her friends. that's who she is. If you can't deal with it, it would be better for both you and her to end it. Hope that helps.
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