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writes:What should I do?First, let me explain the entire situation. My girlfriend and I play World of Warcraft. She got me into it. Her character is a healer, which keeps the other players alive. You need to know this, to understand my reasons for asking for help.Just yesterday, we were sitting on her living room couch, my back to the arm and her cuddled in my arms watching tv. She gets text messages a lot, so i don't really try keeping up with whos texting her about what, because i figure most of it is in game stuff. She tells me that they are texting her to ask if she would heal for a place they were going to, and she was trying to talk her way out of it. I said ok, because we only get to see each other over the weekends, and i figured she wanted to spend time with me. Not three minutes later i glance down to her phone, out of pure curosity as to what they want her to heal, and catch a glace of her dirty text messaging someone else. With me right there with her.Ever since that moment, I've been wondering 'if she's lied to me about this, then what else is there' and 'if she does this kind of thing while I'm here, i don't wanna think about what she does when we aren't together'What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2009): Confront her with what you saw on the text message.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2009): Have her server transfer, I had the same dilema with my wife. She made a so-called friend on WoW and after her buying him presents to over using the minutes on the cell phone and sending him masterbation video or her vagina did I give her an ultimatium. Server transfer or I'll transfer out of her life. Remember, it's World of Warcraft, not World of Lovecraft.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (20 December 2009):
Sounds to me like there's a lot of lying going on. Flirty messages are one thing, dirty ones are another. You have a choice. Say nothing and hope it works out, or tell her you say her writing dirty messages and ask her why. She will most likely have a go at you for invading her privacy and all that, but it's not like you actually looked through her phone or anything. You were there when she was doing it, which suggests she not all that great.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2009): Tell her that you saw and you know the truth, and you weren't spying on her x
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reader, Lost annd Never found +, writes (20 December 2009):
 just ask her cuz honesty is the best policy in the relationship.
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