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writes: I fancy this girl who is really popular. We speak alot on msn and at school but i never see her outside of school. she likes me as a friend but i want to be more than a friend. I have a feeling though that my mate who is really good looking and popular will ask her out soon as well and she will say yes. I want to ask her out but im so worried she will say no, what should i do. im afraid that if i ask her out and she says no it will be too uncomfortable to speak to her again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2006): That is so easy dude!Just go to her and ask her to see you at the lunchbreak.Then in the lunchbreak,you've to be yourself and true,and then ask her to go out with you.If she says no ask for her phone# and call her in the afternoon (16H00)for the reason.Finish!
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reader, Salsa +, writes (1 May 2006):
 Get there before your friend!!! I am 12 and i asked my friend out and he said no but last night we ended up snogging so it shows if you do nothing you get nothing in return!! so tell her about your feelings and hopefully if shes a good friend she will understand!! xxx
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reader, Seth +, writes (1 May 2006):
if you really like her then ask her out. pop girls also have something we call heart. so don't worry, just drop it away for one sec then ask her out. if she said yes, you can move on.***don't forget you've nothin' to lose
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2006): dear anonymousPluck up the courage and just ask her and if she says no then move on because there are plenty of fishes in the sea and destiny will decided!
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reader, Floppy +, writes (30 April 2006):
 Hello,make a move first before your mate gets there first!! There is no need to be worried about how popular this girl is because if she fancies you popularity wont matter. Popularity really aint anything, it is deep down in the heart that really matters. Go ahead and ask this lass out, you never know what the answer may be... !! Good luck! If she really is a mate she wont fall out with you!!
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reader, tux  +, writes (30 April 2006):
 If you really want to take this further than friends, you are going to have to move forward. You never know what will happen until you actually move forward. Yes, she could say no, but she could also say yes. May it be ackward if she says no afterwards? Yes it can.. You need to decide if she is worth that risk. If she is... GO FOR IT!
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reader, Ana183 +, writes (30 April 2006):
 Hi there, I was once in your situation. One of my friends from school was popular and I liked him. It took me about 3 months to ask him out, but I did it! Unfortunatly, he didn't feel the same, and I thought I was going to be devistated, BUT I WASN'T! I was actually really fine with it, and all it was was that he didn't quite feel the same way. It didn't affect our friendship or anything (which i thought it would, as probably so do you). Even though he didnt feel the same way, it felt like a weight had been lifted from my shoulders, as I had been dying to tell him for ages!If I was you, I would ask her if she would like to meet out of school, somewhere where you can talk to her and not be disurbed, and tell her how you feel. You never know, she might feel the same! After all, you have nothing to lose, and you will feel better when you have told her. But PLEASE don't ask her out on MSN or anything. Theres nothing worse! Telling her face to face shows her that your full of courage! If she starts acting all weird on you (like not being her normal self when your there), that just shows that she is immature, and you can do better than that! Trust me, as a 15 year old female, its nice to know that lads fancy you, especially if they tell you face to face, and even if you dont feel the same!Good luck!xANAx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2006): Ask her out! What have you got to lose, just explain how you feel about her. IF you turned down just ask her if you's can still be friends, IF that happens :) and Good Luck!!
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