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writes:HELp!!! I've known this girl for 14 yrs. we've been pretty good friends. In the past 4 yrs we have lost touch. she's had a boyfriend then and I was married. My wife cheated on me so we are going through a divorce and around the same time my friend's bf cheated on her also. I ran into her about a month and a half ago. Ever since then we've been talking everyday or at least every other day for an hour or three. we live in LA. since then I've taken her to Vegas for the weekend and Hawaii for 4 days , just me and her. Im 27yrs old and she's 26yrs old. the down fall is that she's 7 months pregnant and I'm about to go to prison for 15 months in July.How do I know if she likes me that way and how do I tell her I like her????
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (6 June 2008):
 You should wait untill you have done your time to pursue any relationship. All too often, when one partner goes to jail/prison, the other cheats, and thats not good. Right now, it might be good to tell her you have feelings for her. Is it a down fall thats she is pregnant because you arnt in to the kid thing, or because you think it will keep her from falling for you? Because if you are not into kids, dont even think about going for her. If you do, you are getting involved with 2 people, wether you like it or not. Focus, now on doing your time, and when you get out, get your life together enough (build a nest, so to speak) to make yourself a suitable candidate for a beautiful mama and her sweet little blessing. Good luck, and may your prison experience be timid and quick.
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reader, jay12toes +, writes (6 June 2008):
 theres a lot of stuff that can happen in 15 mounths so it kinda sucks knowing that even she feels something for you now she might not when you get out. but putting that aside, i say just tell her how you feel, if she dousnt feel the same, well im not seein any real big consequences.
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