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writes:Hi there, need a little bit of help with decoding a girl. I heard through a few people that she really liked me and I kind of liked her too. So we got talking a while back just to get to know her and she never seems to ring or text me unless I do it first. Im struggling to work out if she wants a relationship or such. Nothing has happened between us yet other than talking and going out a few times but I do want something to happen. Should I ask her? Should I be more forward with her? What should I do?! Thanks in advance for the advice!
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reader, throttleaddict +, writes (3 August 2006):
throttleaddict is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice! Next time I see her I'll give it a shot. Need some time to think of what to say but as you say, I'll never know. Again, thanks very much for the advice!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2006): Well, I am very interested in a male pal of mine but I always let him text/phone first because a) I don't want to be perceived as a needy and clingy girl and put too much pressure on him and b) I want him to make the first move!!! So, it may be the girl you're interested in is thinking, rightly or wrongly, the same way as me!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2006): I think you should open up and tell her how you feel. She may not know yet how you feel, she is waiting for you to make the first move, or she isn't interested. It's most likely that she does have an interest in you if you heard it from her friends. Don't trust an unreliable source, though. You never know what could happen unless you try. So take a deep breath, relax, and tell her what's on your mind. Ask her how she feels too. The worst she can say is no, and that's still a whole lot better than sitting around wondering about it. I wish you the best of luck and I hope everything works out for the better. Be brave!
~RJGirl
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