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writes:I broke up with my Ex boyfriend and now am married, after 6 years into my marriage I started thinking about my ex till today and it has been going on for the past 5 years. I am haunted and regret ever breaking up with him, what should I do? Is there any possibility of getting back together again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009): You don't say if you are having problems with your husband. If you are talk to him, work on your marriage, being married is hard work.
You must of broke up with your ex for a reason. What you are doing now is thinking what might of been and you a romantic fantasy going on in your head of living happily ever after with him. You have to tell yourself that's in the past now. I am not saying you won't think of him, of course you will, everyone thinks of their ex's from time to time, they were part of our lives.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009): Are you in contact with the ex?
Have you seen the ex? If so, or not - when was the last time?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009): Its a really hard situation. It sounds as though you dont truly love your husband anymore and just want to be with your ex. How has your relationship with your husband been over the years? Its not fair to him to be committed to you if all you can think about is someone else. And its not right to stay in a relationship with someone if you arent truly happy and want something different. If you do leave your husband, is there any sure guarantee that your ex will want to take you back? Do you know things will be amazing with him and you wont regret leaving your husband even more? You really need to consider all the things you would be giving up, for something you might not really be certain of. You know what you have right now, you dont know what the future will be if you change it all. I suggest you really sort out all your thoughts and consider your feelings and your husbands feelings. If anything try to get counseling and make it work. If not, its not fair to him to give you his heart and not have yours in return. I wish you the best of luck whatever you decide.
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