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writes:Right! Met this girl about 7 months ago.... got on really well, very heated and all that. She tells me she was only here (where we were) for the weekend, then she went back. We stayed friends and a week later shes going out with someone where she lived. She says long distance doesnt work bt then she moves back and is still going out with her boyfreind at distance. Ive been with someone else since bt have realised I like this girl. She says nothing can happen bt wont say nothing ever will, which means????. I think shes messing with me or just likes the attention. However Ive met up with her a few times and I still really like her. Question... She has a boyfriend bt she meets me every now and then shes not against the idea of me and her bt wont take the leap. Should I just not talk to her for a while and see what happens? What is going on??
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (25 June 2007):
 I would back off and let this girl come to you. She needs to know she can't play you along with her boyfriend. It sounds a bit like she is messing you around.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (24 June 2007):
 Yes. If I were you, I would let her know, politely, that you want her to "take the leap". If she's interested in you, she will come your way. However, I don't think she is: she has a boyfriend. Maybe the long distance thing makes her think twice about you and her, but, then, you need to know what to expect.
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