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writes:Hi guys. I have a bit of a problem at the moment. I've recently started seeing a girl 3 months ago, she is more experienced than me at sex (dont get me wrong I am too) but recently I seem to be very nervous about having sex with her. Firstly, I am turned on whilst having sex but sometimes cannot keep an erection, other times it feels so good that I do not last very long. There is no real pattern to this, but recently it is becoming a big problem in my head and I think it is a viscous cycle as I am conscious about it each time we have sex. I havent mentioned this to her, and I have NEVER had this problem before, so its pretty worrying! Does anybody have any ideas of what to do? Techniques to try or anything? Thanks in advance for the advice!
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (23 May 2009):
 When you catch yourself worrying about it, make yourself think about something else. Sports scores. Obama. The price of mangos. If you dwell on it, it will only get worse.
It's natural to be nervous sometimes. And if you start worrying about anyone she was with before, remember she left them and she's with you, and she's with you for a reason.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2009): Why don't you go and find a virgin if you feel so threatened? good luck
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