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*gonyunclechris
writes:Hi. I am 17, this girl i like is 18, she is one of my closest freinds. i recently told her i think i am in love with her, and after about a week she started to feel the same. we started going on walks and just doing things like ringing each other late in the night, and getting flowers, and doing things you just do wen your in love. Heres the catch........her mom thought she was going with an older man but she told her mom she wasn't, then her mom came out with. 'Don't have a boyfreind right now'. the girl is the baby of the family but she is 18, they are all a church family.....but im in the church aswell. anyway. she told me if i can wait she can wait for me. i want to know if anybody else has been in the situation and did waiting work out? or did it end a mess. also what can i do about the mother to change her mind. i Can wait because i am in Love with this girl, but i cant afford to lose her, she is too precious to me. thanks
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reader, Country Woman +, writes (23 May 2009):
 I think the only thing you can do is to be patient but it also comes down to your mentality as far as having relationships and your sexual preferences.
Please don't think for one second I am saying you must go and try loads of girls or anything but if you are smitten by this girl and you both attend the same church then you have a common interest.
I think by showing yourself as a GOOD boy and being a caring and loving boy to others, prepared to help out whenever you can and not getting into trouble of any kind will prove to her mum that you are genuine and from a good family.
Her mum is always going to be protective of her no matter how old she is but showing that you are prepared to wait and if you can get to spend some time alone with her from time to time then the waiting may be easier. However, you just don't know how long that will be so it really is your call on how to proceed.
Just give it 6 months and see if anything improves by then.
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reader, girlwantinhim +, writes (23 May 2009):
 Hello,
I think you should wait for her, but while you do wait, carry on being a friend, it does get hard but if you say this is love then it will be worth it.
About her mother, try to talk with her mother so she can got to know you and start to trust you with her daughter. What makes a relationship perfect is when you are appreciated by the parents/family of your partner.
I hope this helps even if its just a little. Be strong. xx
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reader, Krathor18 +, writes (23 May 2009):
 All i can say dude, is if you love the girl, then stick it out and see what happens, no one can see the future unfortunately, but im sure yours is a good one, just take it easy going, get to know the family etc, maybe they will see she is in capable hands, i wish you only the best, and may god go with you, take care,
Charlie.x.
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