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writes:hey, long story (kinda) short, im 15, and there is a girl in the year above who has been one of my close friends for quite a long time, but i realised that i liked her more than that. A few weeks back i told her how i felt, and she told me that she had wanted to tell me the same thing for ages. since then i have seen her a few times, and each time we end up making out. The thing is, i dont think she views us as 'in a relationship' so i was wondering if there was something i had to ask or do for us to be together?The other thing is that even now, when i see her with her friends, she completely ignores me, is that a bad thing?thanks for the help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks a lot, i spoke to her after school today, and introduced her to some of my best mates, she seems much more chilled about everything now and we are finaly together properly :)
thanks sooooo much, talking was the key
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (4 November 2009):
There's only one way to find out what's going on, and that's to talk to her. She may be unsure of how you feel about her, or she may be shy or just not know where she stands with you. Don't be afraid to talk to her, and be attentive and listen to her. Don't rush her either. She'll open up and then you can see where it's leading. Good luck.
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reader, Blod +, writes (4 November 2009):
 I think you need to talk to her. She seems to be a bit unsure of where she stands with you. You've told her how you feel and she's responded but nothing seems to be official with either of you.
She probably doesn't know how to act around you. If she doesn't know whether you're on or off or if you just like each other then she's probably unsure of how to behave when you're around. It's easier for her to pretend you're not there when she's with her friends rather than say or do something that might give something away. If she's not sure what you think or what your relationship's like then she won't risk embarrassing herself in front of her friends. Not because of you but because she doesn't know how you'd react.
I don't know for sure. This is just how I view the situation. So talk to her. And be clear with her!
Good Luck. X
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