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writes: When my boyfriend and I were first together, he told me all about a woman that he'd had a relationship with for only a couple of months but she called it off as she wasn't ready. When he told me about her, he went on about how lovely she was, just right for him, how he thought he may have made a mistake not contacting her and I ended up with an impression of a gorgeous looking woman who he still had feelings for (though he told me that now he hasn't got any feelings for her)as well as feeling insecure that I wasn't what he wanted. They didn't have a sexual relationship but what he said remained in my mind.She has now tried to contact him and I did react in a jealous way and tried to explain to him why I felt that way (because of all the things he said before) but he just got angry and dismissed me as jealous and to sort it out. I worry about him seeing her and I hope he would tell me if he did.Any advice?
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reader, Tim +, writes (22 November 2005):
 People do cheat as well like Mr Clinton used to do lol if he loves her he will do cheat no matter wot u can't stop him if she is prettier than u or she has a lovely body no by not trusting him and lead urself to a world of confussion. No matter if she is older than u he might likes her body but neva question him alot about her dont force him to remember her all the time, try to change urself become more relaxing more sweet and try to wear sexy dress at home show him how sexy and lovely u r, he should get positive signals from u and u stand on his side rather than fighting for a nonsense ex. try to use ur lovely brain rather bringing urself down and fight with him, to change ur mood, change ur hair colour to something more sexier, eat and sleep well, always wear light make up and sexy perfumes try the red imporio armany for girls. dont leave him alone go out with him to some nice places if u guys offord it, try to change his mood, change ur telephone as well so nobody will eva bother u or steal ur man.
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