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writes: I have been at uni for 2 months now and have become quite friendly with a guy on my course. The only trouble is that I want to be more than just friends with him. I spent 2 hours talking to him last night but I think he was just being polite and only likes me as a friend. Should I make a move on him and risk ruining a new but good friendship ir just keep him as a good friend and move on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2008): look, lets face it u like him, do you u want to find out whether he likes u? or u might never know. wat i would do is take a chance, if he doesn't like u.... its his loss im sure ur a great person and u can find someone better. Good luck w. ur problem peace- ^Tha moose^
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reader, Dante +, writes (18 December 2005):
Make the move, at least this way u know u tried instead of always wondering what could have happened. so the question "can we be more than friends?" = u never know till u try.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2005): Hey girl, I know EXACTLY how you feel. I've just finished my first term at uni. There's this guy I really like, we're really close friends and spend a lot of time talking together at night time. I think I'm falling in love with him but don't think he feels the same way even though we're both single and he's always going on about how he wishes he was in a relationship. Every girl he meets, he considers whether she'd be right for him but he completely overlooked me. I was going to say something to him before we broke up for Christmas but decided not to. I wish I had done now. I think, he'd probably appreciate it if I was honest with him. I wish I had said something now. I think the best thing to do is continue being a good friend and maybe the wool will be pulled from his eyes. I know I'd rather wait till my friend made the first move with me. My advice is, if you really like this guy, don't give up on him. Some guys just take a while to realise something special.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2005): Hi,I have been in a very similar situation and my friend was the one who said something first, and we both felt the same way! but we soon ended it and went back 2 being friends beacuse we are much closer this way. The relationship aspect was just too complicated and we felt we'd be ruining a great friendship unless of course we fell in love. Anyway, i cant tell you what to do, but this may help you. Your situation may be different and u may be better with a relationship if the boy agrees or maybe u should stay friends cos not 2 lose him.
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reader, Tim +, writes (22 November 2005):
 Dont jump too fast when it comes to date someone u love wait till he asks u, if he is too shy or there must be someone his in his life, where he lives or where he goes clubbing, if he fancies u and loves u and found u very hot and sexy he will tell u, if not nothing will happen, we live in 21st century where we can choose and reject our special partner but u must be sure does he really feels the same way as u do, does he sends u any greeting cards or love letters? does he eva ask u to go out with him for a pizza or for a cup of coffee to an italian resturant ;) does he ask u wot do u feel about him if not dont ruine ur friendship he might fancy somebody else ;(
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2005): I think that you should express how you feel. It may not be the best thing to do but it's worth a try right? I'm in the same situation as you and I'm just as confused, but I told him how I felt and he just stares at me whenever I pass by.Just give it a try.
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