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22-25,
anonymous
writes:There is this girl in my school, whom i've became good frineds with, and i've had feelings for her since before christmas 2014, and i've still got those feelings, and i do feel some sort of a connection with her, we share a lot of common interests, we always make eachother laugh, probably due to our personalities, not relation-ship, but since Febuary of 2015, she's been seeing someone who i don't know, which isn't a big deal, but i don't know him, and i still wish the best for her, but not knowing her Bf seems to get me for some reason, maybe jelousy, i don't know. i'm not one of those "Mr.Steal your Girl" types of guys, i've been patient, and i guess that i should be happy that someone is making her happy, but sub-consciously, i'm jealous that i'm not making her happy in the way that her boyfriend is. i guess it's just Jealousy, i hope.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (22 August 2015):
 You can't STEAL a person. They are not an object. Nor did you OWN the right to date her because you saw her first.
She sees you as a friend and thus there should be NO issue in her dating whomever she wants.
You blew it by not asking her out when you first fell for her and you both were single.
Next time when you feel you are falling for a (single) girl ASK her out - don't get stuck in the "friend-zone" by pretending you are her pall, her buddy. If she likes you too, who knows it might work out. If she DOESN'T like you that way at least you will know.
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