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writes:I have sort of a messed up question for you. I'm 17 and I have a girlfriend who just turned 15. Her parents are really strict and protective but sometimes they let us alone together. We basically have only got so far as making out but one time we went to a party and some people were watching a porno in the basement. She smoked some weed and had three beers and watched the movie a little. We had a blanket over us and she rubbed me through my pants. Obviously it turned me on real bad but I couldn't respond because there were people there and she's sitting talking to people acting like she's doing nothing.Next morning she remembers nothing so I'm frustrated but not mad. I bring up the idea of oral, as in her doing it, and after some convincing she agrees to try it but says "do not put your stuff in my mouth, I'm afraid I'll puke". So we do it and I'm actually embarrassed because it's over with in less than five minutes. It basically just ends up all over my shirt and I just throw it away because I don't wany granny to see it.The problem: we've done this four times and now she's asking me to get her back. People, I mean she's been shaving and all that but I wear braces. I'm scared I'll cut her or something. That and the smell. She showers twice a day but I've smelled her while using my fingers and while it's not gross it's weird. So I'm not sure but I'm afraid she'll stop what she's doing or get her feelings hurt. Totally pointed out the braces and she said she didn't care. So now I don't know what to do. Am I being selfis
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2020): You probably shouldn't be doing this stuff at 17 but I did too.
My 17 year old GF was a real ringer. And I hated returning the favor. The different smell, you'll learn to love it -- nature's perfumes. It didn't take long to love doing it
The braces, like others said it's done with your tongue. But why not put your night retainer in just to be safe.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2020): Your question is better suited for someone older. There are way too many things that could go wrong at your age. Things that could upset both your futures, or endanger your health.
I'm not offering you any encouragement; but I will only advise you that you both should be waiting.
I suspect she is older, rebellious, and much more experienced. Drinking and smoking weed is an indication you're both poorly supervised teenagers.
Go ask your father!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (21 June 2020):
 I think you two need to pull the breaks here.
She JUST turned 15... YOU can get in trouble for any kind of sexual activity even if your parents are OK with it, which is seems like they ARE NOT. Which means.. they find out? You will "pay" the price.
Also, do you really think your penis smells or taste ANY better than a vagina? If you do.... you are mistaken.
But I think you are BOTH getting ahead of yourselves with the sexual experimentation. And yes, it's selfish to ASK her to do things you aren't willing to reciprocate with. But it would perhaps be better to SLOW down on the sex stuff. Sex isn't just about YOU getting your rocks off.
FA is ALSO right in asking about HPV vaccine, it's something YOU do not want and you DO not want to pass on. It's also a STD that you can not be tested for (as a male) but CAN get and pass on many times over without knowing. So GET that vaccine.
And what kind of parties do teens have where they sit in a basement drink, smoke pot and watch porn? Sounds like a bunch of losers...
You will feel the hammer when her parents find out what you two have been up to. Even if she was willing or even instigated things... YOU are the one who will be held responsible.
Lastly, COERCING a MINOR (your GF) to participate in sexual acts is not good, OP. You need to respect a NO, son. Your " after some convincing she agrees to try it" is COERSION.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2020): Honey, I'm a mom to a son and my main concern is the age difference. In most states, 15 is below the age of consent. Are you trying to go to jail? I'm not going to touch the issue of underage drinking or underage porn-watching. Also: puts you at risk for jail time.
Anyway, yes: beeswax will cover anything sharp. If you're worried about an unpleasant smell, maybe you're not ready for that. Does she have good reason for wanting you to go down on her? Yes, but you might have to put the breaks on receiving oral too. SHE doesn't sound ready for that.
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (21 June 2020):
 Speaking as a Dad. It's A-OK if you don't do that to your 15 year old GF. It's A-OK if she breaks up with you. It would be even better if you didn't take her to parties with alcohol and marijuana.
As far as specific advice to address your question, it's done with your tongue. Put beeswax over your braces. And Girls like it every bit as much as guys.
As far as practical advice, Have you had your HPV vaccine?
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