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She's denying we're even friends because her boyfriend doesn't like it - I have feelings for her, what should I do?

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Question - (8 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 October 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Theres this girl I like...she has a bf and well she likes me too but LOVES her bf...We are super close buddies...one day her bf found out I liked her and that she had feelings for me aswell...and now she denies our friendship too because her bf doesnt want her talking to me?(jealous) We talk still but the part were she keeps telling him we aren't friends bugs me...i told her how i feel about it but id like what to do next...her reaction is that she feels bad...I think she expects me to deal with it and let it go but i cant...cause it hurts...

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (8 October 2008):

hlskitten agony auntOf course he's jealous. Thats perfectly reasonable. Wouldn't you be if you were dating her and he made it known he likes her and she likes him?

Sometimes we have to stop being selfish and leave people to get on with their relationships, and not try muscling in on someone elses partner. You're making her feel bad and putting her in a position. If she didn't love her boyfriend, she wouldn't be trying to please him by saying she isn't mates with you anymore. Sorry bt thats fact.

There are loads of females that aren't attached out there.

C xxxxxx

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