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*abyjoe14
writes:Okay so me and my boyfriend broke up maybe 3 weeks ago or so, and we're still friends and see each other everyday. I am still head over heels for this boy and we were together for a year and 4 months, but sortly before we broke up he was chating with some girl that lives two hours away, nothing big but we broke up for personal reasons, and now he has been kinda seeing this girl, she's stayed the night with him a couple times and i still go stay with him everyonce in awhile...he tells me he still loves me and he wants to be with me, he flirts with her and i guess from what i heard from a good friend they kissed, now this is the thing he has her over and hangs out with her and then comes to my house and sleeps with me and kisses me and tells me he loves me and he isnt falling for her. we just recently had sex the other night and it was perfect, i just dont know what to do i told him not to lead me on... I dont know what to do, should i wait for him he said we will be together agian i just dont know what to do, he is in a band and thats what i hate more than anything cause there are so many girls that would kill to be with him and i cant stop it...I love him to death i belive him that he loves me i just dont know why he has to be doing this to me, what should i do?should i wait or just move on...its so hard for me though cause were best friends and love each other and i see him everyday and if i dont see him im online talking to him, please help me out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2008): I am sorry to say he is kinda using you for sex.
If he loves you, he should respect you.
I don't see the love when he can in bed with other girl.
When he come back to you, don't let him do anything to you. Who he think you are? Come back whenever he want and leave again?
The best choice would be getting someone that will appreciate you.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (8 October 2008):
 He's having his cake and eating it sweetheart and you're letting him.
3 weeks and he's in bed with someone new, then having sex with you? This isn't normal behaviour from someone that is suppose to love you?
Tough as it may be, the only way you're gonna be happy is if you move on. You dont sound like you trust him. Guys in bands usually use their sex appeal to their advantage, much like professional footballers. My cousin is in a band. A girl in every town! You wont ever feel safe with that by the sounds of it. This guy sounds like he collects women like stamps.
C xxxxx
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