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writes:Hey Guys, i sorta need help.. I am an 18 year old male. I have experienced life, since the age of fourteen i help a multitude of jobs, most of which were three at a time when i was 16 to support my girlfriend who was a little younger than me, but her parents coulnd't pay for the apartment because they got terminated from their jobs. I have been around, some of my friends are addicts, criminals, cops, etc. I have recently meet a 25 year old woman who has two kids, she has her fellopian tubes tied, thus disabling her from having any more children. See, we 'fell' in love, but she is seven years older than me, and i wanted to see what you guys think. Does a 7 year gap matter if the male is younger than the female? Will we run into problems ? I have seen many questions where the females were younger, but this time around it is i, the dude, whos actually younger. Furthermore, for now not having children, but raising someone else's (as they are not mine biologically ) isn't a big deal, but i dont know what the future holds, can someone please give me some insight on the mental metamorphosis on the issue of someday having your own kids? ...because if we stay, than i can never have my own children.. i can never have my own little buddies.. what do you guys think? Not that i will necessarily take your advice, but i just wanted to see what you guys generally think, thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2010): Hey Zayla, the feelings are mutual.. I love her and she loves mee
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reader, loraemoon  +, writes (24 July 2010):
 same situation, im the older woman though im 30 and my boyfriend is 23 so seven yr differnce i have 4 kids that are from a previous marriage,i also had my tubes tied but for medical reasons when i got with my boyfriend i told him and he wasnt bothered at all like he says now hes got my 4 it doesent stop me thinking being with me is going to hold him back from having his own i worry he will change his mind and want kids of his own that thought will never go away , i think there is a lot of differences with age gaps but not as a problem especially if your totally commited to them if your happy with eachother thats all that counts dont even worry about what other people think its your life, if in time you both agreed for a baby then sterilization can be reversed
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2010): Do you love her or does she love you?
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