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writes: I'm 15 and I recently decided to email a girl in my year at school to tell her I fancied her and had done for a while, she email me back telling me that she quite liked me too, we kept sending each other emails until one day I got a email from a older boy claming to be her boyfriend who threatened me with violence if I didn't stay away, the girl is not a slut or anything I can sense that she still likes me really but has returned to her boyfreind becuase i suppose she wants to play it safe, what do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2006): Let this go, dear and control all future impulses to email this girl. She flirted and was likely enjoying the tittilating, fun moments with you..emailing back and forth. What teen girl doesn't like to flirt and test her attractiveness. This is the way of youth..learning about real life and relationships by dating. But just one thought--aren't you kinda wondering why she's emailing you when she has a bf? Think about that--if she scoping out other opportunities when she's with him..what's saying she wouldn't do that if she were to get with you? Just thought I'd point that out but..I have a feeling you still want to date her, so..you respectfully wait until she and her bf break up, someday (who knows when?) and then make your move. In the meantime, try not to think much of this, get out there and have fun dating others. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2006): She didn't return to her boyfriend to play it safe, she returned to her boyfriend because he is her boyfriend.
Now you can either move on from this, and find a girl who is single, or you can plot to take revenge on this girls boyfriend. I would probably recommend the first choice, but it could be character building to at least passionately show an act of brutal revenge on someone. Just don't get caught. Stick to the rule that once in a life time is enough, you don't want to make a habit of these things. Good luck.
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