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writes: I have been with my bfriend for 2 years and dont know if there is any hope for our relationship as i wish to travel next year but he wants to get a flat and is not willing to wait. Should i put off travelling also i think he may be cheating any ideas on a good way to find out for sure? Ive just lost my last flat and job it would hurt to lose him to. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2006): If you want to travel then go for it. I keep saying this but LIFE IS TOO SHORT!!! There are times in the future when you get older to get a flat and settle down. You are young - go out there and see the world not the walls of a flat!!
If he doesn't want to come then point out that it is his decision but you want to go and don't want to put it off any longer.
I put off a whole lot of things because of men and now it is too late! Don't do the same. Don't look back and think i wish i had done that as you are cleaning the flat on a wet miserable day. Go for it girl, i will back you.
Take care
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