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She won't reply to my messages...why is she so distant?

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Question - (6 January 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 January 2008)
A male Australia age 36-40, *P88 writes:

hi im 19, i met a girl(18) at a club, had alot of fun together, kissed, number exchange. she invited me out the next night (sat). we spent a lot of time together during the week including meeting all her friends and got along very well. after a couple of days i called her n we had a short chat bcoz her friend was telling her to get off the phone, however she told me she was going away for a week or so with her friends the next day. a couple of days passed and no word from her so i sent her a simple text message saying hi etc, and she replied about how much fun shes having and "ill talk 2 u soon" , so all good im glad shes having fun and i left it at that. i left it upto her to get in contact with me bcoz i dont want to interfere or be annoying. she still has made no effort what so ever and it doesn't make much sense. im not pushy or needy nor in a rush but just confused as to why she's so distant. i would greatly appreciate your time and advice.

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A male reader, PP88 Australia +, writes (10 January 2008):

PP88 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

hey! thanks a lot for your time, i appreciate it. The update to the situation is number 3 of the 4 possibilities you suggested, she has found someone new. Its a shame, but, Good luck to her! hehe. Thanks again!

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (8 January 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntThere could be a number of probabilities.

1)She could have lost your phone number.( Call her up to verify)

2) She could have been taken.

3)She has found someone new.

4) She did not want to continue anymore or lose interest.

Just treat it like a wonderful dream , those times you spend with her.

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