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*host2010
writes:My wife and I have been together for 4 years. I have had psychological problems with erections in the past especially with new partners. I have also noticed that if I frequently masterbate to porn this also happens. With my wife I have had erection problems here and there but recently the last 5 or 6 attempts have failed. My wife is not reacting well too it and it obviously affects me too. After the first time I got spooked and now everytime we try I keep thinking its not going to happen and thats what happens. im not even excited about sex right now. I have a lot going on. We just moved and neither me or my wife are working so stress is definately a factor. I erased the porn off of my computer and I know I can get an erection on my own but I don't want to keep touching myself because I feel that is part of the problem. The first few times I got erect during foreplay and went limp shortly after penetration and the last couple of times, nothing at all. My wife is so discouraged that she barely lets me touch her. The last incident that occured she didnt even talk to me, she got dressed and left and went to the bar. This is the longest period of time this has happened. I feel it is quickly destroying my relationship. My wife has no patience. She is off her anti-depressants and has an increase in libido and is more demanding. Before it was the opposite. She practically had to beat me off with a stick. I don't know what to do. I cant see a doctor i have no health insurance right now.
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reader, ghost2010 +, writes (28 June 2010):
ghost2010 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni am not sure what is going on. I really dont think it is ED. I can get an erection. Last night we tried having sex, and as she slowly massaged me i was starting to get erect. As we started getting a little more involved, it went away and what not come back. i feel like i forgot how to relax. everytime i know we are getting closer to intercourse it pops into my head that it is not going to work and it doesn't and i don't know how to stop thinking like that. Also, i don't drink anymore and i have decreased my marijauna use which was never a factor before. if anything it made it more intense
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reader, yag  +, writes (27 June 2010):
you might have an erectile disfunction, as you can't go to your doctors or see your GP you could always look it up on the internet on how to know for sure, if this is the case.hope that helps.
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