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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I'm crazy about this young lady, I told her how I feel, but she told me that she only wants to be friends. I really thought she had feelings for me as well, but it turns out that she was giving me wrong signals.I'm now left feeling very sad and empty, I can't do my job properly at work and I don't feel interested in other females. I go home at the end of the day and just lay on my bed feeling sorry for myself.I live in a small village and its fairly hard to meet young single people. I just feel like grabbing my passport and running away for two weeks, but I can't afford to.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (13 August 2008):
 That sucks ey. Well, if she didn't jump into bed with you and didn't say anything about wanting to give a relationship a go, then you have picked up the wrong signals, rather than her giving them off.
Its difficult to ask someone outright if they like you in that way though isn't it at the start, but people really need to bite the bullet and do that, because just wondering if they like you like that doesn't help in the long run, and people probably dont want to hear the worst. Better to hear what you dont want to hear sooner rather than later though.
Give it time, you will soon get over the girl and meet others.
C xxxxx
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reader, lena1  +, writes (13 August 2008):
 it's ok man thatis not the end of world!!!!!you will find the women who will apreciate your love and you will forget about this one!!just try to make urself busy and don"t think of here(or at least try to )!!!
you feel this way because this is new for you but later when days pass and you find ur real love who will love you too you will remeber this days and laugh about it !!!!
live your life normal you still young and god wng you will find teh girl who will deserve your love!!!
good luck man
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