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writes:I've been with my Girlfriend for years now and we live together and have been doing well. I love her very much and want to be with her for a very long time. She wants to get married but I don't really want to. She thinks I don't want to because I want to be with other girls or something and that's not the case. One big reason I don't want to get married right now is because my credit and finances are in great condition while hers are terrible. She owes money to everyone and isn't making enough money to get ahead. I don't want to get tangled up in that nightmare. Am I wrong to want to maintain our longterm relationship without getting married? I'm only 20 years old and I also feel I'm to young to get married.
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reader, tired82 +, writes (17 March 2009):
 Have you told her how you really feel regarding her financial situation? Since your credit and finances are so great why don't you try helping her get hers together. Have you made an attempt in helping her? Help her build a budget, set financial goals and develop a plan to overcome her debt issues. She probably just needs some guidance. Tell you what go to the nearest bookstore and buy her Suze Orman books. They should give her all the guidance she needs. Best of luck.
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