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writes:I'm back with my ex wife, and for the first five months it was great. But now she is saying she wants some space, and she is losing her feelings for me slowly! she said space apart, to see if we will grow closer together.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (24 July 2011):
 you had space apart before. i don't know why this was or whose idea it was, but it looks like its not worked. being apart doesn't make people closer, in my opinion 'the break' comes before the 'break up' if your wife needs time away from you, it is coz she does not WANT to be with you. sorry :( you need her to start being honest about her feelings, even if it hurts you to hear it
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reader, Confused112 +, writes (24 July 2011):
Dude I know the feeling. No contact for a few days. Don't call don't see her don't text. Get you a beer and go have fun with friends. Show her you don't need her and that you want her in your life with you. I know that sound crazy but if she has no contact with you she will either miss you or break he contact to find out y you have not talked to her. When this happens tell her why you stopped talking to her she wants space. You do some thinking don't stress. If you don't give her the space she will leave you. Tell her when she is ready to talk again to call. Tell her you think the time apart will be good if thats what she wants. Remember let her come to you. Don't break contact first. She will call you. Don't beg don't tell her you want her with you. Just be yourself. And hope for the best but don't beat yourself up about it.
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (24 July 2011):
 If she is starting to lose feelings for you, then why stay with her. There's no need for her to have space if you two are trying to make it work. I think you should call it quits this time because if she was trying to make it work, she would be trying her best and wouldn't want for you two to be apart. Hope I helped.
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