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*haunpatrickedwards
writes:hi guys ive been dating a woman for almost 2 years shes spoiled and is just a baby i dont make a lot of money but i do pay bills, take care of laundy, cook, clean i do it all.... recently i got hit at work in july by a truck so ive been in therapy and still get paid and pay the bills half we split. well i take pills cause my left knee is crushed, my girl is gonna leave me if i dont quit taking them i am in pain not an addicton, i dont drink or anything and she does take drugs please help me society, should i stay or go?
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reader, Candid Cally +, writes (31 October 2011):
Is she taking your drugs? Is she perhaps trying to get you to stop taking them so there are more for her?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (31 October 2011):
 why does she want you to stop?
my bf had knee surgery last month and he's still in pain but the doctor won't give him narcotics any more. IF a reasonable doctor still feels you need narcotic pain killers and you are taking them as prescribed I am not sure what her problem is.
does she want you to stop them so she can take them?
what drugs is she doing? is it daily? is she functional?
why are you staying with her?
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reader, Abella +, writes (31 October 2011):
 Sadly this immature spoilt girl needs to get real. She lacks empathy and consideration for your medical conditions that so do need medication.
If she is not mature enough to recognise that she deserves to lose her reliable kind bill payer, laundry man, chef, cleaner, general all purpose handyman and home comforts supplier.
She will be very sadly disappointed when she finds the shrinking pool of guys who would be anywhere near your standard.
Keep taking your proper medication.
Her demands are unreasonable and Ignorant.
Get a smarter kinder more considerate and empathic girlfriend. You know, someone like you. The girl YOU DO deserve.
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reader, tealeaves  +, writes (31 October 2011):
 Why on earth does she want you to stop taking them? Have you asked her? It's quite obvious you're in a lot of pain and you need them to reduce it. She's very selfish if she expects you to give them up. I reckon that you should leave her; if she treats you like that then she isn't worth it. She's taking drugs for pleasure while you're only taking prescribed drugs to soothe your pain - she is a complete hypocrite. She has no right to tell you to quit when she's on far more dangerous substances. Leave before it's too late is my advice.
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