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writes: my girlfriend of the past 2+ years just recently broke up with me because she says that she wants to be single for her last year of college. but since we've broken up, we still act like a couple and i don't know what to do or think about it. she came over tonight, and we sat together, and i had my arm around her. and then she gave me a back massage, and put her feet up on my lap. i mean, we're so comfortable with each other, and so used to each other, that this is normal. but i don't know what to make of it. should i let this continue? i'm so confused. i know she's not just using me, as we've been together for way too long for that. i know she's genuinely having a hard time not being with me. i just don't know if i should allow this to go on or not. or if maybe we have a chance of getting back together. what do you think? and what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2006): u know what, my sis did the same to my friend, and she acts like ur gf does, she toys with u to keep u from getting another gf, while not being ur gf, talk to her so shes ur gf again or either be friends and go out and try and meet someone else, by the way, my friend loves my sis, but hes so dissapointed of her that hes almost about to never talk to her anymore
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reader, Juliette  +, writes (26 August 2006):
 You can only talk with her and explain your confusion. She may be confused herself, but if she wants a break perhaps you should both agree no contact for a month then see how you both feel. It is not fair her behaving that that but she may not realise how she is confusing you. Of course I don't know her, but it does also look a possibility that she is testing you to see if you miss her which is a cruel mind game.
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