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My lover thrust too deep; now there are problems "down there"

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Question - (26 August 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 28 August 2006)
A female , *alicutie052001 writes:

i had sex with my b/f when he came to visit... when we had sex he went really deep and kinda hurt my lower stomach and i think my bladder... my vagina was really swollen and now when i go and pee it kinda tickles and is tingly.... the outside of urethra doesnt tickle just the inside... i dont have to pee a whole lot normal i would say... and it isnt painful just seriously tickles... i dunno whats wrong any advice have u heard of this at all?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2006):

Not too many women experience full penetration to where it become cervical stimulus to be enjoyable. It will take time for you to "adapt" to his deeper thrusts.

I say go to the family doctor if this continues to worry you.

*hugs*

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A male reader, David Lewis United Kingdom +, writes (28 August 2006):

David Lewis agony auntThis happened when me and my fiancee first had sex, I hurt her but she never told me. For about a week afterwards, she was swollen and very sore, especially when trying to urinate. We put this down to the chemicals in condoms, but maybe there was more to it? The swelling went after about 5 days, so this is possibly the same thing. Maybe the cervix impact can cause swelling.

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A female reader, bonym United Kingdom +, writes (26 August 2006):

bonym agony auntIf it persists, you are best off going to the docs to check that everything is ok. I havenot experienced the pain myself so I cant advise you from a personal perspective but see your GP. And perhaps tell him to be a little more gentle next time just in case it happens again. Take care xXx

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A female reader, Wendyg United Kingdom +, writes (26 August 2006):

Wendyg agony auntWell I have experienced the pain in the tummy that you mention, almost like hes gone way to deep and hit the back wall (cervix) which is pretty common i think, but ive never had swolleness around the area after, as once its kinda been whacked so to speak i have to stop as it feels like you have been kicked in the stomach, im assuming you stopped after this, its more to do with the angle sometimes and its the side wall that can be hit and cause the pain! Like i say ive never had any after effects when this has happend, so are you sure the two are linked ? I think maybe if it has been bruised in some way it would take a coulpe of days to calm down, maybe see how you go and pop along to the doctor if no better, we are more robust than we think but it could just be as a result of the sex and is a funny tenderness feeling... if you still feel like it in a couple of days i would go have it checked out, but it could just be as a result of the deep thrust and may calm down. Try not to worry as it probably just your bodies way of coping with the little trauma and will probably go back to normal in no time, but do get checked out if not and also make sure that you havent got cystitis as this can be brought on by lots of sex.

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A female reader, Kati3 +, writes (26 August 2006):

Kati3 agony auntWell, I think you should see a doctor before it gets any worse. You should also tell your boyfriend maybe not to go so deep, so it doesn't happen again.

Hope this helps!

Katie xx

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