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writes: After nearly 3 years my fiancee turned around to me and said she didnt know what she wanted any more so we split. I know that she loves me and wants to be with me but I feel that other influences in her life are stopping her from realising this. We have planned to go away and are going to see each other a couple of times over the next few weeks. I want to take her to one side and tell her that I love her, but I don't know whether that would drive her away or whether it will help her realise what she wants. What do I do?
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (11 November 2005):
 I honestly hope that after a three year relationship and engagement this would not be the first time you told your lady that you love her. That said, she probably already knows that you do. It seems that we are all so willing to let the ones we love abuse our emotions far too often. If she says she does not know what she wants, why would you be so willing to go on vacation and continue a "relationship" with her. Sounds like, she wants to have you and all of your time and energy yet none of the commitment. This way she is free to look for something better. Watch yourself here, you are leaving yourself wide open for heartache.
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