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writes:I met my girlfriend on the internet a year ago we have met 5 times , we are 500 miles apart , i love her so much , i am a jealous and paranoid person and i have accused her of all sorts , i have treated her badly , the problem is now she wants a break for a week and i have now realised that i have been a fool and i have learned my lesson. She will now not talk to me at all. What should i do ?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (24 March 2009):
Gosh, I bet you are REALLY paranoid now you are on a break. What could she be getting up to?
If you pester her now she will just think this is you being jealous again.
Are you really sorry, or do you just not like the idea that you don't know she is up to this week?
Give her space and when she talks to you again, THEN you can beg for forgiveness.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, loving arms +, writes (24 March 2009):
Pestering her after she has asked for some space for a week will only re-inforce her belief that you have issues.
Personally i do not believe anyone can 'learn their lesson' in the short time you have had to learn yours. There's a saying 'you don't know what you've got until it's gone' This one seems to have come true for you.
You say you have hurt her and been treated her badly. This is becuase of 'your' issues not because of the type of lady she is. If you truely want to learn your lesson I suggest you go to the doctors and ask to be refered to someone who can help you channel your issues in a positive why.
Maybe by showing you want to change she might be willing to take another chance on you.
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