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writes:Just wondering if anyone knows is it possible for all women to squirt when they have an orgasm? I have been trying and not having any luck is there a trick to it or are all women not created equal (lol)?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2009): Not at all our us women the same. We are all different. But anyhow, i am trying to figure how to squirt myself. i think women that do it is awesome. Yes, i myself is female. When my man goes down on me i feel like i'mma pee all over his face. I just can't take it anymore so we stop. I guess you could say it tickles and i feel like i'mma pee at the same time, but i can't seem to release whatever is happening. So i'mma try. No, i'm not doing it because me and my boyfriend watch porn...I honestly love porn more than he does. I compare myself to them girls. No i can't deep throat but i am sure trying and getting use to it. But i just think it's cool as hell. lol. i guess i'm weird like that. so i hope it works well for you and i. good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you Star.X. for taking the time to answer my question. I have enjoyed your replies, and hope I didn't bother you too much. It has been a pleasure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009): two things - find what works for him - his kink. he will have one. Just something that will set him off. it could be stockings, tied up whatever - he will have at least one buried somewhere. use that as your clue to him.
if its stocking then just wear them more often etc.
the other thing is you - what runs you on- if its being shouted at in Italian while being screwed from behind - teach him how to.
think of what you want first that will lead you to him (ok three things)
more direct things i like - whispers, texts of what will happen, underwear on, underwear off, promises, stockings, kisses, afternoon slow sex, some porn, tied up, her tied up, tesing, being teased etc. (oh just realised i am male so pretty much everything...)
last thing really Porn - its not good if watched in excess - then he thinks you should be like that and you should behave as the actresses do. You arent you are better, the real deal. You are no more a porn actress than i am james bond (not even for a day) - take time to love each other through sex not just doing it for the hell of it like fast food.
Star.x.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionStar. X. I agree,you are soo right . The reason I am interested in this subject is becaus my husband seen it on porn and has since been wanting me to do it. I apologize for my poor English it is my greatest weakness. Would like to improve, any tips on that. Is there any sites or would just going to the library for research be best. If you could help would be apreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009): no problem and understand.
I have to be honest i don't get the whole squirting thing, one of my ex's used to, and all that happened is everything just got more wet than normal, so bigger damp patches etc. ok the first time, but not every time...
What i don't get is why there seems a sudden fascination with it. My view is it porn lead so now we have a group of girls trying to emulate pornstars because their porn watching boyfriends think its what must be done for great sex. I now feel that so many people are trying to collect the set of sexual achievement badges by the time they are 17 when it should be a nice long slow process of exploration and discovery. Instead of getting clap two weeks into loosing virginity and pregnant within six.
Star.x.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSorry OtherStarFish - didn't mean to insult you, but felt insulted myself. I really appreciate the help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2009): I love you to sweetheart. Nice to see a measurement of intelligence is to throw an insult at someone who has tried to help. I also think you English is brilliant and shows true intelligence.
Anyway since you are jaded and it isn't meant, (seriously) to offend, here are some more helpful links to read firstly a series of posts on here:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/squirting-during-clitoral-orgasm-is-this-possible-.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-there-a-way-to-induce-vaginal-squirting.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/have-you-ever-had-a-squirting-orgasm-.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/can-anyone-tell-me-how-to-squirt.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/squirting-i-need-some-information-please.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/can-you-tell-me-how-to-squirt.html
Skim through these there is lots of good advice in there.
Out the web there is loads of stuff.
http://uk.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_150/184_love_tip.html
http://en.allexperts.com/q/Sex-Advice-Oral-2391/SQUIRT.htm
http://www.seductionsourcebook.com/features/sex_tips_how_to_make_a_girl_sq.php
Didnt read these but should help you on your way...
hope it helps...and happy shagging...
Star.x.
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reader, funnyintit  +, writes (24 March 2009):
 despite my age i know women are far from equal... u must 1 in a million to think that.. they are all different, in a good way, it would b so easy if they the same!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthis is to Otherstarfish - I don't feel that doing something that would really turn on your mate is pointless and I feel sorry for your mate cause there must not be any excitement with new things in the bed room. For the record I am not a stupid person I am vey educated thank you. but hey thank you for your time and for your opinion, cause everyone has a right to an opinion.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (24 March 2009):
 Fortunately, all women are not created equal :-).
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2009): some can squirt. i have whilst using a sex toy. i just had it switched on and fucked it real quick. and i squirted. alot. does it really matter though. maybe not all women can. i dont know. hope this helped.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2009): no not all women are created equal. some have big bits some, small bits some are blonde, some are red,some are very stupid and spend there time trying to do pointless porn tricks followed by more laundry.
sigh
http://howtosquirt.wordpress.com/
might help.
star.x.
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