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male
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36-40,
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writes:I have recently begun seeing a girl I met while at a volunteer summer job. We clicked the instant we met and we have been seeing each other regularly for over 2 months now. She was just getting over a very unhealthy relationship at the time I met her and it seemed like I was a good escape from all the "drama" for her, we really enjoy each others company. We talked and I knew she wanted to be in a relationship with me but she said she wanted to make sure she was clear of her last relationship before she really "publicly announced" a new relationship. It has been a month since that conversation and I am dying to bring it up again because I am so close to this girl. Should I ask her about our relationship situation again or just keep waiting until she mentions something? Reply to this Question
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (21 July 2007):
 I think you should ask again. It's a bad sign that she wants to be "clear" of her previous relationship. She should have been clear before she started another relationship with you.
How long will it take before she thinks she's "clear"?
Deep down, you want her to commit to you. You have every right to it.
By the way, you shouldn't think of yourself as "escape" for anyone. You should think of yourself as serious relationship material. If you let people see you this way, that's what you'll always be, and you don't deserve that.
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