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writes: I seem to like this girl. I cannot sleep without thinking about her. Also I cannot survive the day without thinking about her. The problem is last time I asked her out she said no and we were not getting along. Now that I seem to talk to her. She seems kinda kind towards me and I am not sure what to do. Plus she is kind of related to me and I am not sure what to do. Should I ask her out one more time or should I not say anything to her at alll? Plzzz help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2006): Women like to chase too. If she really likes you, I believe she will let you know in other ways than just being "kinda kind."
Be patient, it lets women know that you're not desperate.
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (6 July 2006):
 Hi,
You don't mention how old you are, and appear a bit vague - ("I 'seem to' like this girl"; "I 'seem' to talk to her) - perhaps you come across as though you are not direct enough, so maybe she is not aware how interested you are in her. Or, may it be that she is 'forbidden fruit'? Could you just be infatuated? Also, if you are related to her, perhaps she is afraid of what the family will make of it if you were to start seeing one another. Perhaps if you try to forget about it for now - I know it will be difficult, but you will have to give her some space to sort her own feelings out too - start seeing other people and getting into your social life, it will help you to get a different perspective on the situation. If she then becomes interested in a romantic way, she will let you know in the fullness of time! Be patient, that way if it does not work out in the way you hope at least you will still be friends.
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