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writes: Asked this the other day but could do with more responses :)Things with my bf are a bit up and down at moment and I have met a guy at work who is genuinely interested in me. He asked me out on a date and I obviously rejected due to my bf. But now I can't stop thinking about him. I am trying to convince myself I am just thinking like this because I just like the attention and ego-boost. What do you guys think?
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reader, sammi star +, writes (21 January 2011):
Yep that's exactly it! I found myself in a similar position and my best friend gave me some excellant advice. She told me that when you're going through a rough patch with your partner, the man you love, then you really don't need a handsome stranger turing your head. You should be focusing your energys on working things out with your man, not picking up an ego boost from some random guy. Obviously you're going to start comparing them and that's never a good thing. Forget about this other man and get things back on track with your bf. Go out and do something different, go on dates like you used to, sit down and talk. Really talk. Best of luck :)
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